By: Sim Yuthy
Date: 3rd Jan, 2014
Dark skin man, wearing
a white shirt along with a book in hand, Pring Vichhay, 24, known as a pagoda
boy in Wat Unalaom. Vichhay, who moved from his hometown in 2010, was born in
Takeo Province. He now becomes a senior student in SETEC Institute. He has five
siblings, and he is the fifth son in family. By having trouble with financial
support, Vichhay left his family to live in pagoda to pursue his education at
university.
Speaking with up and
down voice pitch, Vichhay describes about his bitter life of being a pagoda
boy. Actually, he decided to live in pagoda as his family is very poor, and he
can’t afford for rental house in Phnom Penh.
Although
pagoda is a public place, everyone can’t stay in pagoda without informing the head
of pagoda. According to Vichhay experience, before he is allowed to stay in
pagoda, he has to write an application form in advance to ask permission from
the head of pagoda, Tep Vong.
“My
parents sells the cow and rice to support my study,” he said. Although he has a
suitable place to live, he still need some money from his parents to pay for
school fee “I’m really pity my parents, but I don’t know what to do because I
don’t have a job and money,” he added.
Even
though pagoda provides the accommodation for him, Vichhay always spends his own
money for food. He spends at least 15000 riels to 20000 riels per days but
except the holy day because it is the day that monks get given food from
people. After the monks have eaten food, he gets to eat what is left.
Living
in the pagoda means one has to adhere to its internal rules including being out
no later than 9 pm. That deadline is not flexible as at that time the lock the
gates of the pagoda for the security of everyone living in the pagoda. “I’m not
proud of myself! I’m an obedient person, and I have never left outside pagoda
later than 10 pm,” he said.
He
continued “The environment in this pagoda is well-organized because of the good
leading of head of pagoda.” Since Vichhay moved to live here, the security is
not quite safe because there are many gangs and drug users around here. “They
used to steal stuffs from the tourists and they often make chaotic activities
that should not be tolerated”, he said. Therefore, after the tourists and
people who live around here frequently complaint about these activities, the
head of pagoda starts taking action by reporting to police, and pagoda campus
has been protected by the security camera.
For
daily activities, Vichhay always get up in the early morning to clean the
surrounding environment, and then he picks up food for monks. He sometimes join
the meditations with monks.
Vichhay
said, “Although pagoda is a suitable place for me, but it is still not like
home.” He sometimes has difficulty whenever the pagoda celebrate traditional
feast because he has to help facilitating any works in the pagoda. As a result,
he can’t even go to school and do his assignment.
By
living with monks, someday Vichhay always accompany with them to get Binddha Bat
outside the pagoda. Speaking with a depth breath “I don’t have much free time
like other people.” My leisure activities is so boring because I always ends up
my time with both pagoda and school work day by day,” he added.
If
talking about politics, Vichhay is not so interested at all, and he has never
joined any demonstration activities because he has been told not to do so.
“Pagoda is a neutral institution, so on behalf of a pagoda boy, I have to be
objective, and I have to listen my leader advice,” he said.
Since
Vichhay started living in pagoda until now, he has got not only good but also
bitter experiences. More than this, he has been educated to be a good person,
he now get accustomed to the difficult situation. “I still won’t give up although
I encounter with the obstacle in any conditions,” he said.
Vichhay
is reaching on the bright side, and his life is going to upgrade because he
will be graduated from university by the time next year. Sooner or later, he
will find a good job, and he will be able to fulfill his parent’s desire. “This
is what I always dream about when I was young, and I want to have suitable job
and a knowledgeable person in the society” he adds.
“For
those who have chance to stay at pagoda, please don’t be hopeless because life
is the struggle,” he said, “not everyone who comes from the province get a chance
to stay at a city pagoda but only people with good backgrounds who come from
impoverished conditions are permitted to stay here.” It is the last message
from Vichhay.
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